This is for all the beginners out there who are aroused by the idea of bondage and fetish. It’s a secret desire and you have finally convinced your lover to take part in your naughty fantasy. You’ve got your bondage toys and restraints. You know about how to convince her to enjoy bondage play and you know how to set the mood all erotic – scented candles, mood lighting or whatever else you need for sweet seduction.

What do you do once she is all tied up? When simple creativity won’t do and you need some inspiration, try some of the following ideas:

1.) Nibble her. Pretend she is a tasty snack and nibble all over her body. Use your teeth. You can judge on how hard she wants it by her reaction. Some women love pain and maybe she does too, but you have to know the right amount. Cause her pleasure with more pain. Bite until she says the safe word, maybe you can get very kinky, you’ll only know once you try.

2.) Use a www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/vibratorpage1.htm vibrator sex toy on her. She won’t be able to move and will be submissive to your moves. You can penetrate her or tease her. Using a vibrator will be a big turn-on for both of you and she will love how you take charge and give her sexual pleasure.

3.) Surprise her with something that she would have never expected.

Blindfold her and place her in a hogtie position, allowing you easy access for sex. Slip on a vibrating cock ring, the most overlooked but exciting a http://aruzzo.com/c-102-vibrating-cock-rings.aspx toy for couples. When you penetrate her, the vibrations will drive her wild. Your penis will be like a vibrator and she will be extremely excited by your ingenious idea and amazing creativity.

The point of this article is that the more you excite her, the more she will want you to tie her up. Surprise her with something different, the unexpected is always exciting. She will be completely on board for bondage play sessions and you two will begin your kinky path together.