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First Taste of Latex: A Tail of Two Kitties

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February
2009 | 1:27 pm

tn-01241-300x2251First and foremost:  I believe everyone that has decided to explore some kind of “alternative living” is standing and applauding Sean Penn this week for having taken home an Academy Award from the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences (otherwise known as an Oscar) for his dead-on portrayal of slain civil-rights leader, Harvey Milk.  In his acceptance speech, Mr. Penn said ,”It is a good time for those who voted for for the ban against gay marriage to sit and reflect, and anticipate their great shame, and the shame in their grandchildren’s eyes, if they continue that way of support. We’ve got to have equal rights for everyone.” I personally do not believe anyone could have said it better, or so eloquently. Wherever you are, Harvey – be proud.

A few months back, Your Humble Narrator did draw some attention to the life and the time of Harvey Milk. One of the bit-players in that all-too-real life drama was the woman who took a violent, filthy and foul little creature off the very streets and decided (despite the best efforts of those around her, I might add) to give that Dodger-like rascal a life. She raised him as were he her own flesh and blood and, in so many ways, allowed him to live a life that indeed would have been cut all-too-short due to the very nature of an existence living from garbage can to garbage can.

That Artful Dodger … was me. Her name was Papillon and though I have not been to San Francisco or her second home in the Canadian Rockies for years, I daresay the mere mention of her name must bring whispered reverence amongst those who not only knew her, but could proudly count her as amongst their best of friends (if not, perish the though, family).

What I wish to focus on is somewhat of a transformation – and the transmutation itself revolves squarely around the feel … the scent … the near obsession … with rubber. Let’s use the more fashionable term for ther remainder of this piece, shall we? I freely admit that I had thought latexwear a little odiferous, looking uncomfortably tight and seemingly a nightmare to maintain, judged by comments made within the house and by latex-enthusiast guests within it. I therefore had little use for the stuff.

Northbound Leather Latex Mini-Dress

Northbound Leather Latex Mini-Dress

However, latexwear personally was introduced to me completely by accident: I was charged one day with having to clean out some older cabinets and closets within one of the Chambers of the Chateau – and I won’t soon forget that overwhelming essence that permeated throughout the room the moment I unlocked and then pried open the top drawer of a somewhat old chest of drawers. What the hell is that? I remember thinking quite clearly as my nostrils were filled with the aura of … well, what smelled like an old bicycle tire collection … loving folded into individual black plastic bags. I had caught a whiff of rubberwear at a party or two, of course – but this was truly overpowering. There must have been over one-hundred latex garments in that one drawer alone.

Being still somewhat young, and curiousity being what it is (an indiscreet murderer of inquiring felines of all kinds), I gingerly reached into the very first bag and withdrew the item within. It very quickly unfolded itself – into a three-quarter length mini-dress, made from fairly thin black latex. It had a deep cut across the breast area but a fill back, and the arms appeared to be about three-quarter length (just below the elbow, I think) as well.

What I had also managed to do was create quite a mess: I had no idea what the hell all this fine white powder was that was now silently and delicately wafting around me – and seemingly all over the room. To the best of my knowledge my Lady certainly wasn’t one of the premiere suppliers of “consumable white powder” in the neighborhood – so I made the (correct) assumption that it must be a biologically-friendly latex protectant.  That powder continued to spill merrily from the upturned black bag until my senses snapped back to attention and I managed to pull the gaping “mouth” back to a normal, upright position. Minus, of course, almost every last residue of that powder. How can one small bag hold that much powder, I thought? While I still held this wondrous little black rubber dress cautiously in one hand, with as much grace as I dared I put the black bag on the countertop of the chest of drawers – only to have it immediately drop forthwith from the ledge and plop with a small, cloud-like thud onto the carpet below. Whatever remained up until that time in the bag, was now free to travel the known universe.

Now, naturally, Gentle Reader, one thought kept going through my mind the entire time:

She is going to kill me.

Frantically, I looked about the room for something – anything! - that could immediately scoop up and hide the merry little evidence of my curious stupidity that now swirled about happily in the dimly-lit room. This being not quite the age of the ‘Dust Buster”, my immediate thought was, of course, to casually seek out Good Old Reliable Mr. Hoover (the vacuum cleaner, kids – keep up with the tour!) – but in my panic I could not for the life of me remember where it was. I also realize with horror that to move about the room … would be to create little powdery footsteps behind me, anywhere I went. I could not leave that room … I could not even move about in that room, in truth, and a secondary thought just went through my mind, over and over again:

She is going to kill me. I’m doomed.

Now, you must understand one thing about the Lady Papillon, my friends: This was not a woman who abided other people’s messes. Her own? Sure! She was perfectly at home traipsing in and out of the kitchen with dishes piled as high as Mount Sinai itself: as long as each and every one of those dishes had been placed there by her. Just like a certain credit card always states, “membership has its privileges” and being counted in the Dominas “R” Us club certainly ascribes an identical idiom. There’s always some servant or six to clear the mountains of plates, after all, n’est-ce pas?

Regardless, Dear Reader, as my terror mounted, and in oh-so-too-short a time, I heard the distinct sashay-sashay  of my Lady’s long silk skirts and the gentle click-clack of her booted heels walking through the library area – and inevitably, excruciatingly and methodically towards the open door of the inner Chamber. I closed my eyes, waiting for the inevitable banshee wail that was sure to follow the moment she passed the threshold …

No, this isn't your Mom's kind of singing and dancing "Cats!"

No, this isn't your Mom's kind of singing and dancing "Cats!"

… except that two of the three household felines, at that very moment, decided to investigate the proceedings first. Your Humble Narrator will not go into a long, detailed description of exactly what it is like when two cats, intent on playing a rousing game of ZOOM! decide to take their delightful game directly through your silkenly-dusted general area. But, allow me to say this much: it isn’t pretty.  One pure black cat became near white! One brown and white cat became even whiter! Mungojerrie and Rumpleteazer themselves could not have caused more mayhem! One cat tail zigged wildly to the left! Another cat tail zagged drunkenly to the right! Mushroom clouds of latex protectant are forming right before my terrified eyes, and yet another, tertiary thought raced through my mind as I watched the tail-swishing horror unfold before me:

She is going to kill me. I’m doomed. But … at least the garden is far too small to effectively hide a body.

For one, precious, but brief moment, I remembered where Mr. Hoover was currently stashed. I thought all I had to do was quietly pick the two rambunctious kittens up, silently drop them into the bathroom right next door until such time as I could sponge them down, creep down the hall, retrive the vacuum cleaner, and deflty eliminate any evidence of my powdery, Clouseau-like buffoonery.

Alas, my feline housemates had other ideas. The moment I even gave a hint as to bend down and pick one, if not both, of them up, they immediately made a bee-line straight towards the door. Oh well, I thought, I’ll just have to figure out something else. So, Your Humble Narrator doth cringed the tightest cringe I believe yet foreseen on this good, green Earth and pondered just exactly where my remains would, eventually be found.

Especially when the cats went hissing and flitting out the door directly underneath the skirts of one very annoyed, boot-tapping Domina now standing firmly entrenched between the room – and my extermination.

What a scene, that must have been to behold in her eyes, O My Cousins and Only True Friends.. As the two beloved household felines continued their mad romp and dash through the house, leaving a trail of white powder with each swat, leap and roll on anything and everything in their path, my own beloved Mistress of the House simply raised her infamous brow … very deliberately placed her slender, tendril-like fingers upon her hip in a dignified yet dramatic and commanding curl, tapped the toe of her black leather boot once – just once – for maximum effect … pointed her other hand and one very elongated finger at the dainty rubber dress I now held clumsily in my hand, and said:

“So, boy. I see you’ve been a little busy. Would you like to try that on?

That was my first exposure to the wonderful world of latexwear. I do not need to tell you, I look terrible in a latex mini-dress. Pray tell: What was your first experience like?

Kardynyl SynysTyr

 Mungojerrie and Rumpelteazer had a wonderful way of working together.
 And some of the time you would say it was luck, and some of the time you would say it was weather.
 They would go through the house like a hurricane, and no sober person could take his oath
 Was it Mungojerrie – or Rumpelteazer? or could you have sworn that it mightn’t be both?”

~ The Immortal T.S. Eliot, “Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats”

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Lady Victoria Valente – the noble art of Domination

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February
2009 | 4:56 am

jhgkgkjhpMARQUIS AMERICA recommends Lady Victoria Valente! Located in the southern part of Germany, Lady Victoria demands absolute devotion and submission from her pets. She is demanding and challenging and will bring you to a new level of being and submission.

Here an interview she published with Tom Stahl, the worldwide Domina Guide:

TOM: Welcome Lady Victoria Valente. Great to see the both of us finally finding some time to do an interview. 

LVV: Hello Tom. I’m also glad that we finally found some time for it – considering that we have planned to do an interview for a long time now.

TOM: Prior to becoming a dominatrix – what did you do? 

LVV: Besides being employed, I was also working as a fetish model. On working days, I practiced my profession and at the weekend, I did photo shoots and was on the go a lot. Doing so, I got to know and work together with many creative photographers and people related to the scene in general.

TOM: How did you come up with the idea or what was the reason for turning your passion into your profession? 

LVV: Well, working as a fetish model and due to my personal preferences and interests, I was of course always around people sharing the same interests. At some point in my life, I asked myself – why not making the things I love to do in my spare time also into my profession? So this is how everything started at Studio Centric in Stuttgart. This is where I am quite often as a guest lady – mainly in the area of classical dominance. However, I naturally also offer visiting customers at people’s homes and at hotels. It’s best to book an appointment two to three days prior to the session to ensure that I am available at the desired date.

3252869TOM: How do people react or what feedback does the society give as a reaction to telling that you are a professional dominatrix? 

LVV: The feedback is really quite positive. Some people are somewhat surprised. I remember a lot of exciting conversations from the past developing from me telling and the interesting thing about them is how the people also begin to openly talk about themselves – giving insight in their preferences related to SM.

TOM: Do you have a special fetish or maybe a favorite practice when it comes to what you do? 

LVV: My favorite fetishes are without a doubt high heels and real nylon-stockings. I have taken a shine to shoes with stilettos already at a young age! I own a huge collection of high heels, boots and stockings – I just cannot get enough of them and am always looking for new, fancy high heels! There are also other beautiful things you can find in my wardrobe – a wide range of gorgeous rubber- and leatheroutfits such as dresses, corsets, catsuits, trousers and skirts. My preferences concerning sessions are roleplays with for example me being the female boss – which, by the way I used to be in my previous work life – and the classical dominance. I love my feet and shoes being worshipped but also enjoy practices such as flagellation, slavetraining, humiliating, nipple torture, CBT, forced milking and anal treatments – just to name a few. In addition to that, equipped with a strapon, I always come up with the nicest ideas for little games. There is something special and very exciting to me when it comes to the game of alternating pain and lust. Of course, not only men are welcome – often also women, trannies and couples are my guests. I love how every person or every guest coming to me is different from any other guest – with different expectations and different needs. I like this fact because this way – it never gets boring!

3656736TOM: Is there something you cannot imagine yourself doing when it comes to a session? 

LVV: I am not active in the area of medical play. Also, when it comes to adult babies or diaper fetish and vomiting-practices, I meet my limits. Now, I’m not saying that those are morally objectionable, but for me they just don’t give the fun or joy I desire.

TOM: You are still working as a model and can also be seen in many different movies. Why don’t you tell us a little about it and what you have the most fun doing? 

LVV: Yes, that’s correct. During the last couple of months, I have shot a lot of movies, which is a lot of fun to me! Already having experience with being in front of a camera working as a model, I did not have too much trouble performing and presenting myself. You see, I’m not acting in the movies – the way you can see me in these movies is just how I live out my SM-lifestyle.

TOM: Your pictures are beautiful and diverse. Where do the ideas and the talent come from? 

LVV: Well, this was really just learning by doing and the talent to present myself in front of a camera. Each photographer is different and at every photo shoot I was able to learn something. Every time, I had to get adjusted to the photographer and his or her methods and ways of working. This has all added up to who I am today. By now, I’m an experienced model who enjoys performing in front of a camera. The ideas come from both the photographers and also often from my side.

3208908TOM: Are you the one writing the scripts for your great movies? Where are they shot? Who takes care of your styling? 

LVV: When it comes to my own productions – the movie ideas are my own. This is for example how the movie-series Managertraining – She ist the Boss you are the loser was developed. I do of course also work for other international production companies. In these cases, the script is set and given by the company. I shoot movies in both Germany and abroad and especially enjoy the shoots abroad in the sun. My styling is always done by myself – in the course of my work as a model, I have learned how a professional makeup has to look like. An important thing about the movies is at all times, that the location fits the content of the movie. This is why the movie Das Verhör/The interrogation was shot in a run-down basement. The location was absolutely authentic and just ideal for this movie!

TOM: What are the requirements for a male sub to be able to take part in one of your movies? 

LVV: I dislike shooting with actors I do not know personally yet. He should take the time to experience a session with me – this is the only way to see if the preferences match and there is a feeling of mutual sympathy. I set a high value on responsibility and it would be advantageous for the actor to be resilient.

TOM: Do you have plans for the future? 

LVV: Oh yes Tom I have! My own video-club – meaning a new site on which I will be showing and offering my videos. Just go to: www.victoriacinema.com

 

TOM: I want to say thank you for your time. 

 

LVV: For Tom Stahl – any time! The pleasure is all mine.

To the website of: Lady Victoria Valente

To the website of: Tom Stahl Wordwide Domina and BDSM Guide

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Fetish Art News- The Erotic Heritage Museum!

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February
2009 | 5:14 pm

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Recently I learned from my friend Midori that the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas is up and running. This is a wonderful new facility with loads of space for permanent erotic art collections.

“The Museum seeks to bridge the gap between that which is commercial and often misidentified as pornographic, with that which is aesthetic, often identified as folk, pop, and fine art through a common visual language.

The Museum encompasses over 24,000 square feet of permanent and featured exhibits designed to preserve wonders of the erotic imagination as depicted through the artistic expression of acts of sex and love.”

Midori is doing a workshop the weekend of March 14-15th, her very popular Wild Side Weekend plus a talk on Contemporary Japanese Sexual Culture- which is sure to include her articulate and knowledgeable discussion of fetish art!
http://eroticheritagemuseum.com

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Fetish Shoes and Boots at MarquisAmerica.com

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February
2009 | 7:05 am

Marquis America now offers Fetish Shoes and Boots to excellent prices! From the Plaform Ballet Shoes to Spike Heel Ballet Ankle Boots and Ballet Thigh High Boots we offer for both Men and Women excellent fetish shoes which will fit to your next fetish outfit wonderfully.

We are proud to offer these fetish shoes on our site, excellent quality, great prices and simply stylish and sexy.

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Here the Domina Single Sole High Heel

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Wonderful Shoes and simply erotic a MUST have! MARQUIS AMERICA

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Club Sin, March 6, Cabaret Cleo 1230 St Laurent, MONTREAL

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February
2009 | 6:38 am

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Absolute Domination: Mistress Absolute Whips Through L.A. to Teach Torture for Pleasure at Coco de Mer on Melrose

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February
2009 | 4:29 am

921_05261When the dominatrix was a little girl, she was constantly locking people in cupboards. In the bathtub with her brother, she would instruct her sibling to close his eyes and open his mouth.

“But you’ll put the bar of soap in it,” he’d say.

“No I won’t. I promise.”

“Aaah,” went his mouth. In went the soap.

It’s one of those classic dominatrix stories with a foregone conclusion. Hannah, or Mistress Absolute to those with whom she is on whipping terms, has a naturally domineering personality and has, in a sense, been tormenting people her entire life. “When I told my mum what I was doing for a living, she said, ‘Oh, darling, you’ve always been like that.’”

Mistress Absolute, who prefers her last name remain private, is lounging on a leather chair in the dressing room before the “Art of Restraint” class she teaches at the only U.S. branch of the elegant little sex shop from London called Coco de Mer, a gilded, luxe place on Melrose with naughty toys in Victorian cabinets where you can pick up $10,000 gold vibrators and almost-as-expensive La Perla lingerie. Mistress Absolute is herself an elegant, slinky person, with pale skin, red lips, long black hair, and a fun-loving, puckish air, without which she would be scary. She lives in London, but regularly includes Los Angeles on her teaching circuit (she returns in April), and when her flight to LAX got in, a female slave met her at the baggage carousel wearing fishnet tights, a tailcoat, a leather chauffer’s cap, a sign that said “Mistress Absolute” and a huge grin.

“There’s a school of thought that says you should start out submissive before you become dominant,” the dominatrix says as students begin to arrive. “That if you don’t know what it feels like, how can you do it to someone else? I don’t follow that thought. I don’t have a set of balls, but I torture balls.”

She is 33 years old, and found her calling at 23. She went to a fetish club for the first time on her own. She bought her first rubber dress, strapped on her first pair of boots. “Within 15 minutes I was giving somebody a caning. I was somewhere I fitted. Finally I had a name for how I am.”

These days, when people in session confess their desires, she sees a weight come off their shoulders. “It’s about being able to release a side of somebody that they kept hidden, and not judging them. They tell me about their fetish, and maybe it’s something they haven’t told their wife, they haven’t told their best friend, they aren’t even sure they should be telling me. So when they say to me ‘I just love to be spat on or kicked about. Is that normal?’ I say, ‘Well, define normal.’”

absolute_01b_1024abSoon, class begins. One surprising take-home lesson is the great effort that goes into making sure you don’t accidentally hurt someone when you’re intentionally hurting them. For instance, stockings are particularly diabolical and should be avoided — the more the victim struggles, the tighter the nylon gets. Better to try neckties, straitjackets or collars.

“Some of the nicest collars I have are from pet stores. Pet stores are great fun. A lot of the time, these are things you can find around the house,” Mistress says in her plummy British accent. “Well maybe not a straitjacket. Unless you’re in my household, of course.”

The world literally opens up when you start imagining the erotic potential of household items — clothes pins, shoelaces, wooden spoons, hairbrushes, rulers. She stole a pair of escargot tongs from the Rainbow Room the other day, declaring, “These are fabulous!”

The play scenarios that Mistress Absolute will entertain, as specified by her Web site, include: humiliation, degradation, sensory deprivation, trampling, rubber (including vacuum bed), tickling, foot worship, waxing, hair plucking, caging, chains, blackmail, blindfolds, needles and cling-film mummification.

Clients also come to her through referrals or through her listing in Serious Mistresses magazine, where you might spot her name among those of various Baronesses, or Mistresses Flogmores, or Madame Panthers. In other words, she doesn’t sit around in the dungeon waiting for people to call her.

Mistress Absolute is what you’d call an old-school dominatrix. “Girls on the Internet will do anything, but I’m quite prudish, ironically,” she says, flexing her long legs. She eschews adult baby — where people dress up in diapers — and sex with slaves, who are forbidden to touch her above the knee. “I am the person on the pedestal. I am the untouchable.”

Because even untouchables have chores, slaves come over to her home in London to do her ironing and scrub her bathroom floors. Otherwise, she doesn’t live and punish in the same space. In addition to a stark, white medical laboratory-themed room, she rents torture chambers in an 18th-century barn in Warwickshire. The barn is also a bed and breakfast, so if you want to get technical, it’s a bed, breakfast and dungeon.

thumbs_921_0377On a brisk, damp evening, her other class, “Mistress in the Bedroom,” is in full swing at the store. Mistress Absolute discusses how to use silence in an unnerving way, how to cultivate mystery, and how to build up your bank of wicked ideas. “I have great fun thinking about the men I send off to work in women’s underwear.” Conversation turns to the niceties of role playing — for those who want to dress up as an office bitch, or schoolmarm, say. She occasionally employs a “hilarious” German interrogation accent.

“Do you start role playing without their knowledge?” one student asks.

“You usually want to discuss it first. Or they might think you’ve got a split personality.”

Flush with power, new dominatrixes will often come down with a bout of “domititis” and start thinking every man is submissive. This is not necessarily the case, she says. Mistress Absolute is a great proponent of public humiliation, though never of beating in anger. Recently, she dressed a client up in a pink tutu and dragged him lovingly around the street.

The first thing she does is to make the client kneel, kiss her feet, and don the collar, a civilized little ritual that marks the start of the session.

“At what point do you put in the Japanese anal beads?” interrupts one woman.

“Dinner,” answers another.

Mistress Absolute sometimes tells nosy strangers she is a “psychodrama therapist” when feels like toying with them. “And no, I don’t do my grocery shopping in full rubber. Though some would love to hear it if I did.”

You wouldn’t guess she is a dominatrix if you saw her out of the bedroom. She was milling about at Harrod’s recently looking for a white ruffled blouse to go with her jodhpurs and riding crop. “What event is it for, madam?” asked the unsuspecting salesgirl.

“Event? I’m a professional dominatrix and I need a new outfit,” said Mistress Absolute.

“Oooh!” said the salesgirl. “Lovely madam. Right this way.”

Over the years, having seen and done it all, she’s developed a theory about sexuality. “Your main setup is before 6,” she says, “Somebody’s kink comes from when they get a stirring but they don’t yet know what it is.”

Still, even an experienced mistress is not without her difficulties. Feet get sore from running around in 5-inch stilettos. Then there’s the consuming mental aspect of making sure your client isn’t going to go into cardiac arrest or lose too much hair when you set him on fire, or that he’s having a good time while he’s suffering. Too often, you’ll get a client roped up in a gorgeous, complicated truss that took two hours to execute — like she did recently with an older businessman — and, even though he swore a love for hardcore bondage, he’ll kvetch: “Ouf, mistress, my ankle has gone numb.” Then there is nothing to do but sigh and untie him.

Class is almost over now and the slave girl who picked her up at the airport arrives. “Come here, young lady,” says Mistress Absolute, crooking one red-polished finger. Having fetched the mistress’ shampoo and conditioner, the slave is rewarded by being told to walk a student’s dog. This particular slave likes to be beat with a cricket bat, Mistress Absolute says casually, and the novices wince. Afterward, dog walked, the waiting slave looks in through the window glass. Rain begins to fall. The mistress smiles.

Coco de Mer: 8618 Melrose Ave., L.A. (310) 652-0311 or www.cocodemerusa.com. For more information on Mistress Absolute: www.mistressabsolute.com

By Gendy Alimurung Published on February 25, 2009 at 7:23pm in LA Weekly
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Celebrating The Feast of Eros

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February
2009 | 8:05 am

tn-01241-300x2251The Feast of Eros, otherwise known in the modern world as “St. Valentine’s Day”, is generally regarded as a time for lovers to renew their commitment to one another. It is also a time for youngsters to shyly exchange paper hearts and expose secret puppy-love crushes on their classmates of the opposite gender.

To quote Sir Stephen in L’Histoire d’O: “There is a degree of childishness in everything we hold dear to the heart.”

It isn’t a coincidence that the general hedonistic celebrations that take place in the dead middle of February are all shared, in one fashion or another, “religiously” amongst several ecumenical traditions. Early Christians expropriated the Feast of Eros from the Romans (whom themselves “borrowed and improved upon it” from the Greeks), invented a patron Saint for the day (Valentine, allegedly an amalgamation of several early Roman Christians with the popular Latin name ‘Valens’, or “Valor” in English). In the Hebrew mythology, the Feast of Purim falls roughly around the same time period (“Drink and carouse until you do not know the difference between ‘blessed be Mordecai and cursed be Haman!’”). Squished usually somewhere in the middle, of course, is the gigantic party known as Fat Tuesday, or Mardi Gras, which is in reality just an ancient Purim celebration taken to typically debauched extremes.

So, Guys and Dolls, what did you do to celebrate any one of the hedonistic outpourings of lust and love?

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My beloved lady, up and coming male to female transformation afficiando and artist Mia Mariposa,  and I hosted a couples weekend at our Leather Butterfly Loft in Toronto, Ontario. It is very rare indeed, in these days of instant access to information and sensual gratification, to encounter people with whom you share an immediate connection – and know that you have made good friends for a lifetime.

Beginning Friday the 13th evening (delicious irony!) with a lovingly prepared Chateaubriand dinner, expertly flamed with non-traditional Jack Daniels over a bed of zuccini, asparagas, Parisienne potatoes, whole chili peppers and organically-nurture button mushrooms (and washed down with a delightful Australian Shiraz with the unlikely name of Shingleback), our evening of superstitious wonder and merriment soon evolved into a full-fledged display of modern ecstacy between Mia, myself, and our incredible houseguests for the weekend – the unequalled and amazing Mistress Lynn and her perfect, adoring boy, Slave J. Having spent a harrowed entire day of travelling from their United States home, Mia and I naturally would have completely understood had our lovely houseguests had just wished to sleep after such a fulfilling meal.

prep2But of course, Mistress Lynn being the devoted hedonist that she is, would have none of it. “Up on the rack!” and “Over the bench!” soon became catch-phrases for the entire weekend – and when our quartet was joined Saturday evening by another couple who made the trek from a nearby Toronto-area burgh, there simply was no stopping the incessant and unrelenting “commencement of mutual hostilities” between like-minded adults.

This was a rare weekend, indeed: Our small group ran the gamut of exploration from everything to boot worship, exchanging extended whipping technique and torment, to much more intimate – and very loving – physical interaction. It has been eighteen years since my late Mistress, the incomparable Mistress Papillon (more about her in particular next week: she was a true latex pioneer and worthy of remembrance) left her mortal coil, and it has been nearly that amount of time since I personally have felt so comfortable expressing our “other way to love” in the presence of people with whom we formed an instant, loving and (we believe) ever lasting near-familial relationship.

prep3What started out as a weekend of apprehension and uncertainty ended in tears of joy and warm embraces tinged with sadness at the need to part. The weekend has taken some of the “jaded edge” off this cynical old buzzard, and we are so very proud to have met dedicated SM practitioners who were patient, kind, enthusiastic – and willing to share knowledge and experience about certain things with which Mia and I admittedly had very little experience with.

I can’t wait to fit Mia in a tight leather or latex corset complete with 10 to 12 garters, for instance. I didn’t even know those existed until our Valentine’s Day adventure. We also can’t wait to see our friends again … and that, in these days of inevitable and perpetual disappointment, is something to be cherished, nurtured and developed in the years to come.

How was your Valentine’s Day weekend? Does anyone have a similar tale to share? Did you manage to meet someone over the Valentine’s Day weekend that you are destined to have close for the rest of your natural lives? Inquiring minds want to know …

One last thought, sort of related: Is it just me, or is anyone else mystified why Cupid has been chosen as a symbol for the representation of Valentine’s Day? I mean, when I think about love and romance, truly the last thing I want to think about is a short, fat infant stalking me with a weapon …

Kardynyl SynysTyr

“… Oh, if it be to choose and call thee mine, love, thou art every day my Valentine! …”  ~ Thomas Hood

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I need some fetish art right now! Where can I get some?

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February
2009 | 4:37 pm

Well, one place that often gets overlooked is your local comic book store.

Not every city has a selection of fancy fetishwear and gear shops the way San Francisco does, but most cities have several comic stores, and often a very good one.

In your high-quality comic store you will often find an adult section, where specialty items like hentai comics are kept away from the prying eyes of under-eighteens.

You might find, as my gentleman friend and I did at a recent trip to Comic Relief in Berkeley, anthologies and collections of old-school artists like Guido Crepax and Eric Stanton, graphic novels by more contemporary artists like Michael Manning, and thoroughly modern hentai omnibuses that feature tentacles and lolita fashions. For hentai manga I like “Please Miss Yuri” by Syowmaru, an artist who possesses true draughtsmanship and figure drawing skills. A great way to sample various hentai artists is Comic AG, the manga magazine of “art, sex and CG culture” that features the best erotic manga from Japan. 

You will also find something I personally detest- the work of R. Crumb, which I consider to be authentically, not ironically or satirically, misogynist. To me, R. Crumb is anti-sex and anti-woman, but you will find his work right next to jolly sex-positive Cherry Poptart in the “Adult” section, so be prepared.

My gentleman friend loves “Bondage Fairies”, and this is certainly the most widely available of the “Lolita-Tentacle-Bondage-Xenophilia-Fetish” school; there are collections in most comic stores and you can order them from j-pop and manga sites like jlist : http://www.jlist.com/

NBM publishing puts out some excellent erotic titles under their Eurotica imprint, and your comic store staff can usually special order titles they don’t have on hand. “Sizzle” is their erotica quarterly, with stories by a variety of different artists- again an anthology is a great way to feel out which artists you like.

Happy browsing, and let me know if you find something you think is really great!

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Weekly Toy review from Darkniis on Marquis Fetish Blog

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February
2009 | 12:47 am

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MARQUIS AMERICA toy review with Mistress Darkniis. She knows the toys as no other and we are proud to have her on the blog reviewing toys & accessories!

This little assortment from CANE-IAC literally made my weekend – what fun! Cane Master and Cane Mistress sent along some wonderful spanking implements for myself and my test subject to enjoy.

What I adore about the CANE-IAC line of spanking implements is that they are quality products that are completely affordable. Kudos. These folks are very serious about their craft and have some well written articles about caning posted on the site.

The descriptions that were sent along with all of the items rang very true for each one.

Lets start at the top of the list…
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Masters Choice SR 28″: This is a rattan cane that has a nice handle which does feel great in your hand. Like all rattan it is wonderfully flexible and stingy! Nice to warm up the bottoms with some tapping and nice welting. As stated, this is not for the weak of heart.

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Ballem – 10 inch Arcrylic Ball Spanker with case:

The first ball on the tip of the Ballem is fixed – the rest of them on the rod spin. The Ballem is a heavy, thuddy piece good for the OTK spanking or erotic massage. It looks like it might be a fun anal toy but the Ballem is not intended for internal use. It can be sanitized and cleaned with warm soap and water.

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The Blue Lightening – Masters Choice JR 24″ – Blue Acrylic Cane:

Made of translucent blue acrylic rods, these canes are sturdy, flexible and easy to keep clean and sanitized. They are similar to the rattan in sting and welting power but easier to keep clean and “shareable”.

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The Red Lightening – Master’s Choice EVER READY – 18″ Red Acrylic:

As above – wonderfully sturdy, flexible and stingy. This piece would be short enough to use OTK.

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Delrin Cane OTK 15″ Loop:

This was one of my favourite pieces from the shipment. Think carpet beater… The delrin loop is flexible; the piece is relatively light and easy to work with. It can be very stingy and would make a good warm up piece to work with tapping. Again easy to sanitize.

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Delrin Cane OTK 16″ – 5 Rods:

Exactly as CANE-IAC has stated; This is a great OTK item and made to be both loved and feared. The five Delrin rods are flexible and deliver a great sensation. Enough said.

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White Delrin Cane TRIPLE THREAT 24″ – 3 rods:

A favourite of both the Cane Master and the Cane Mistress; thuddy because of the three rods but a very nice caning and spanking sensation experience.

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The Wicked Sister 24″ – 3 Strand:

This is my new favourite toy… I am the Percussion Princess and love my floggers and whips – this is a wonderful combination of cane, flogger and whip action. This piece is definitely wicked and man does it sting!

Their description is again perfect; The Wicked is made from 3 strands of vinyl tubing. The three pieces will dance across the flesh, giving an incredible sting. If you have someone in need of a good pain rush, then this is a MUST for you. This is a nasty piece and should be used with caution. They will scream, cry and beg you to stop. (Doesn’t it sound delicious?)

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Wooden Spanking Spoon 18″:

This one brought back memories for my tester… His mother used to use this on his arse when he was little. He thinks it was the most brutal of the bunch. It does indeed produce very nice round red marks on the bare bottom. This isn’t the same spoon where the round part would break off after you were given a couple of whacks with it either… These are good, sturdy, foodsafe spanking spoons.

Many thanks to CANE-IAC for a fun filled weekend!CANE-IAC – Special Cane Assortment

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SINTEQUE the Fetish, Glamour and Pin Up Model

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February
2009 | 4:32 pm

sinteque_marquis101MARQUIS AMERICA recommends SINTEQUE, the absolute Fetish, Glamour and Pin Up Model!

Here an Interview with Sinteque so you will get an idea what SINTEQUE is all about and what she is focused on and we will see from her in the future:

 Sinteque is probably a pseudo. From where is it coming from and where do you come from?


I come from Berlin / Germany. As you suspected my name is a pseudonym. It is a fusion of sin and technique … unrestrained lust meets the rational mind.
Why and when did you start to model?
Oh, that was actually not my idea. I have been active in the fetish-scene for many years and have been visiting a lot of fetish-parties. Quite often photographers approached me regarding shootings. At first I thought  that was silly and I declined. Then at one time I thought : Why not? So the first fetish-pictures were taken about 12 years ago. I was excited. It was so much fun standing in front of the camera and the results were well worth it. What a pleasant surprise! In modeling I found a way to display my fantasies, to visualize them and make them become tangible.
sinteque_marquis09I can imagine that most of your fans think you’re like on your website in you real life… Is it?
My photographs are very authentic and personal. I show a lot of my personality through them. During the creation process of the pictures I am highly involved and I am able to realize my ideas, visions and dreams in them. As a consequence I can say: Yes, that is me! I am proud of it.
Since I am dominant I would never make photos that portrait me as a submissive and be it only a bondage-jacket for a fetish-fashion catalogue. That would not be me. I know that only few models share this opinion. But it is not my intention to be a screen for every fantasy-projection. I want to achieve self-realization, to express myself. I think this message is also acknowledged by my fans. I don’t just show them pretty pictures but let them take part in my fetish-lifestyle.
 

What is your personal fetish? What gives you the biggest rush?

I am a multiple fetishist so to say. Especially latex is turn on for me, preferably to be completely covered so that I am fully encased in this incredible material. Add to this a tight corset that complements the female curves and creates an hour-glass waist as well as high-heels with an incredible height – perfect. Styled up like that I feel sexy. The scent of latex and the feeling of wearing it on my skin really turn me on. It is intoxicating!
It may as well be other details like authentic nylons or selected lingerie – symbols of femininity.
sinteque_marquis08Do you get a kick in showing off your body? Or do you do it for any artistic reason?
I think there is an exhibitionist in every model. It is enjoyable for me to show myself, play with the camera, to seduce, to dominate. I find fulfillment in this. By bringing myself actively into this process, by fulfilling myself and helping create the product I also see myself as an artist.
Do you attend gothic/fetish/BDSM parties, and if so, do you participate and play?
You can find me on gothic-parties, industrial-concerts and fetish-parties as well as private play-events and BDSM-parties. Some of you may have seen me on fetish-fashion shows. Play on parties? If the feeling is right – why not?

What are your hobbies?

I like to travel, draw a little and have discovered digital retouching some time ago. Unfortunately there is almost never time left for hobbies.
What sexual fantasy you would like to realize?
I immediately realize any decadent sexual fantasy that goes through my wicked mind .

Who do you admire or is your idol?
I do not really have any Idols. There are some artists, photographers, model, writers, musicians … that I rather admire. I like contrarians, people with character, creative minds and people that live for the moment. My motto: Learn the rules and break them!

sinteque_marquis14If you had a million dollars, what would you do with them?
Oh, what could you possible do with a million? Maybe create my own rubber residency where I live and celebrate roaring feasts, have my own latex-designer, slaves, a jester … I could probably think of thousands of decadent ideas and the million would not last very long. I love the good life: selected wines, special delicacies from all over the world, inspiring conversations, prolonged voyages, art and culture in the most diverse manifestations.

You cannot live of being a model forever… what will you do after this?
I started a new project in 2007– my baby so to say. It is an online shop!!! The Feisty Cat Store offers a handpicked selection of high heels, ballerina & pony shoes, boots, gothic shoes & boots, nylons & pantyhose, fetish fashion, mini top hats & feather fascinators, gothic accessoires, bags, false lashes and much more. Check it out at www.feisty-cat.com!

What’s you ultimate-dream-come-true?
Move to Japan and become a living fetish-manga girly … hahaha
Here is her ultimate website: http://www.sinteque.com/

 

 

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Trends: More Adornments, Less Accoutrements?

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February
2009 | 9:37 am

Last weekend, Your Humble Narrator and True Friend took at trip down to Toronto’s iconic leather emporium, Northbound Leather, in order to procur a couple of new sets of wrist and ankle restraints. What I needed was quite specific: I wanted sets that lock and cannot be worked loose by a bratty submissive boy or slave girl. Naturally, in the past, Northbound has been extremely reliable as a premium source of exceptional quality restraints, headgear and - of course – fetishwear.

Imagine Your Humble Narrator’s surprise and ultimate dismay to discover that my favourite leather emporium in the lovely city of Toronto really didn’t have all that much to choose from: and none of it with acceptable locking mechanisms. This isn’t a criticism of Northbound Leather at all: far from. In fact, despite what appears to be a sudden lack of wonderful toys, their store (recently re-designed and far more eye-catching) has seen a marked increase in some incredibly delicious body adornments and fetishistic wear.

I would venture to say there are few fetish-focused brick and mortar establishments where customers can walk in and be visually and wondrously assaulted by such a beavy of beautiful leather, PVC and especially latex outer and inner wear. Northbound’s latex collection, especially, seems to rival in the number of pieces available for purchase to the tried-and-true staple of leather pants, chaps, coats, corsets, gloves, hats, britches, etc. etc. etc.

My question is this: Does this reflect the current overall trend in the SM marketplace? Are more leather stations, usually associated with the production and distribution of peripherals and accessories, moving more towards fetish fashion? And on top of that, has anyone else noticed that interest and demand for latex in particular has skyrocketed?

Your Humble Narrator is anxious to know, from the general populace, if YOUR area’s stores have moved towards this trend as well? Is it a case of North America slowly and finally catching up to our colonizing cousins overseas – particularly in Great Britain, the Netherlands, Germany and Scandinavia? Can you share some thoughts of local establishments perhaps quietly selling out their fetish gear stocks and replacing the shelves with lovely latex, leather and/or PVC wear?

A final thought and question: does anyone else notice just how mainstream latex in particular is becoming? Over the past few weeks especially, I have walked into several “conservative” establishments and was more than a little shocked to see a pretty young clerk dressed in a pair of thigh high rubber boots and a short latex mini-skirt, top or even a dress. Does anyone else have similar experiences to share?

Of course, I still need those locking wrist and ankle restraints …

Kardynyl SynysTyr

“… Fashions fade. Style is eternal …” ~ Yves St. Laurent

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Schokomaus the outdoor Fetish Queen

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February
2009 | 4:26 pm

schokomaus_34MARQUIS AMERICA recommends Schokomaus!

It’s nice that you have found me. Hopefully I can satisfy your fetish as well!
My  name  is  Biene,  the  first  light  of  this  world  I  saw  in February  1981  and  since  then  I’m  living in the suburb of Munich,  near  theStarnberger  Lake.  Already in  the  early  days of my life I’ve discovered my fetish for the materials lacquer, rubber,   leather,  latex  and   nylon.    I  love  the  way  these materials  are  following  my  curves and reflect my feminity.
Wearing High Heels and boots is part of my daily living and I adore receiving these views on me this way. Previously I lived my fetish for my own!
With the help of my husband I’ve found out that it’s an insane pleasurable feeling to show my attractions in front of a camera. My love for the erotic photography
 and the passion for web design was the reason to start building schokomaus.com in January 2005 and every shooting is definitely a part of me I’m proud of!
schokomaus_05In my comfortable designed member area you will find very permissive high quality pictures. I am getting a total buzz to show my breasts and more wearing loved materials. Outdoor shootings are giving me an additional kick because of the chance to be caught red-handed! Be abducted  in  my  fetish  world in viewing my diversified pictures! It’s the time for a special  thank you for  all  my  faithful  fans!
Thank you that  you  are  out  there ! I will  continue  to  do  my very  best  for  you! In love www.schokomaus.com
 
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The Art of Bondage, as done by some of the best rope riggers around…

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February
2009 | 11:37 pm

This upcoming event at Femina Potens, featuring rope artists like Fetish Diva Midori, is another performance I’m involved with. I’ll be drawing live all night as the submissives get tied up and wrapped into works of art themselves! I can’t reccommend this highly enough- it’s a chance to see true shibari artists working up close and personal!

SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 21, 2009 – On February 21st 2009 the doors of Femina Potens Art Gallery will open at 7:30pm.   Step inside and experience rope cinching tight into eager flesh as bodies struggle and dance in the air in an erotic ballet of dominance and submission.  Visualize yourself in the midst of beautiful bound submissives molded into sculptural installations.  In the corner of the gallery champagne, strawberries and dark chocolate will be fed to you.  Some of the most skilled rope artists and bondage experts in the country have gathered in this intimate gallery setting to meld art and bondage to intertwine submission and empowerment in a dynamic exchange between two people and an audience starving for connection.   Doors will be locked at 8pm sharp, placing you in the center of the a hot avant-garde bondage scene.  Welcome to the Art of Restraint.

The Art of Restraint will feature rope artists Midori, Princess Donna, Lee Harrington, Lochai, and JD of Two Knotty Boys with bondage models Janice and Raina Degrey and award winning suspension model Madison Young.  Erotic performance art by Bast and Sadie Lune, visual art by Nancy Peach, Suzanne Forbes, Ellen Stagg (of the Independent Film Channel), Barbara Nitke and more. Through rope, restraint, bondage and erotic performance the performers will be delving into our most intricate neurosis. They will be manifesting them in an outward artistic expression of performance or installation.  Our performers will utilize rope, metal, flesh, and other articles of choice that play with the juxtaposition of freedom and restraint, indulgence and self-control.

Lights out at 11pm sharp…unless you are fortunate enough to be a Femina Potens Member.  Members of Femina Potens will be invited to stay for after hours with the artists and models.  To become a member go to the Donate button on www.feminapotens.org and follow the prompts.  All levels of membership will get you into this sexy after hours event.

This will be an evening of decadence and erotic debauchery.  Champagne, strawberries, chocolate, beautiful women, shibari, restraint, and groundbreaking art.  Come be a part of what the SF Gate called “The Most Happening Art Space in San Francisco”.

Advanced online ticket purchase is highly recommended through Brown Paper Ticketing:  https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/52722

‘Art of Restraint’ Erotic Rope Bondage Art Salon
February 21, 2009 @ 8:00 – 11:00 pm
Doors open at 7:30pm
Doors locked at 8:00pm sharp -  no ins and outs
$50.00 per ticket

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HELL party in Los Angeles again- the fetish place to be

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February
2009 | 9:54 pm

hell022509aMARQUIS AMERICA recommends HELL in Los Angeles at IVAR nightclub 6356 Hollywood Blvd in Los Angeles on February 25, 2009.  The electro industrial decadence! Go and Enjoy, you dont want to miss it!

you can find more information about the HELL party at:

www.myspace.com/hell_club

You can find pictures from the last event at www.myfetishcafe.com under Marquis and you will see the featured artist Justine Howard and cool party pics with Eddo the King as well.

Enjoy the new social network from Marquis Magazine!

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Mistress Sinclaire, Pin Up and Burlesque Model

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February
2009 | 12:49 pm

tlep_1655-eMARQUIS AMERICA recommends Mistress Sienna Sinclaire! Her next radio performance where you are able to listen to her is at Playboy radio at 2/20/2009 at “Night Calls” to ask her anything starting at 4:30pm PST! She is an amazing person and well know in the fetish scene. She hast multiple talents and she is not focusing only at Domination, but does Pin Up Modeling, Burlesque performances and you need to check out her school of pain!

Meet Mistress Sinclaire. She’s based in Los Angeles but keeps herself busy by traveling the world. When she’s not attending fetish parties, balls, or events around the world with one of her many slaves, she’s resting up at home for her next event.

Mistress Sinclaire came into the fetish scene over a year ago. Tired of the same old fashion photo shoots, she wanted to try out something new and naughtier. She has always been a born dominatrix, with a take charge attitude.

Let Mistress Sinclaire tease and tantalize you in her members section where you will find photo sets of her in her best latex along with her slaves. You can also view her most naughtiest videos only seen in her members section and no where else on the web.

latex-red_7750-eMistress Sinclaire isn’t just a pretty face, she’s very intelligent and in touch with her sexuality. When not modeling or making videos for her website, she writes topics covering fetish sex which you can only find in her members section, School of Pain. Known as a sex “expert” with lots of hands on experience. Mistress Sinclaire keeps abreast on sexual topics and relationships by attending seminars throughout the world along with educating herself in all areas of sex and relationships.

Join Mistress Sinclaire by registering for classes in her School of Pain. There she will help you to tap into your inner Dom and/or sub, explore your sexuality by discovering your fetishes, how to talk to your partner about your different fetishes and so much more.

You will also find Mistress Sinclaire in the burlesque scene as she performs around the world performing her fetish acts while slowly peeling off her lubed latex or corset to reveal her amazing body. Want to see Mistress Sinclaire in person? Then visit one of her burlesque performances by going to her Burlesque section to see when she will be performing next.

Here is her amazing website: http://www.siennasinclaire.com/

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Madeleine Le Roy

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February
2009 | 10:56 am

februar2smallMARQUIS AMERICA recommends Madeleine Le Roy, not only is she beautiful but also active in different artistic fields from performing, singing, modelling and DJ’ing as well!

 

She is with the awesome group Umbra et Imago:

www.umbraetimago.de

You have to check this website and their work is simply amazing! She is singer & performer!

 

She is also a Fetish Model and Dominatrix and you can find her in the web under:

www.madeleine-le-roy.de

www.myspace.com/madeleineleory

 

With “Mozart” – Frontman of umbra et imago Owners of the famous fetish-Gothic Club “Locco Barocco vr. Kulturruine in Karlsruhe”

Fetish-sm-Party “Painball” – every 3. Saturday

Own Fetish-Gothic-Act-Calendar ”Madeleine Le Roy et ses amies” since 2006

Cd-Release “Chateau Noir” 2008 – incl The Cover-Version of the  Kate Bush-Hit “Wuthering Heights” + Videoclip

 

Additional links for her:

www.locco-barocco.de

www.myspace.com/kulturruine

www.pain-ball.de

 

She is simply geourgeous and beautiful and you cannot miss an opportunity to see her perform!

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Weekly Toy review from Darkniis on Marquis Fetish Blog

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February
2009 | 5:17 pm

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MARQUIS AMERICA toy review with Mistress Darkniis. She knows the toys as no other and we are proud to have her on the blog reviewing toys & accessories!

The electro sex stimulator by RIMBA; I have been playing with my Violet Wand since before they became popular and readily available in the Fetish community. My trusty Radiostat went on many journeys with me and made many, many people very happy! The next evolution was obvious to me – the TENS unit.

rimba_boxThe Rimba electro sex stimulator sex toy works with all the Rimba Accessories! A new, battery operated, pulse generator that sends electrical impulses to the electro parts/toys which can be connected to this power box and placed on any body part. Pressing the different keys can change the pulse width so that the treatment goes deep into the skin and into muscles. This electrical therapy will have a positive influence on your sex life. The power box can run 7 different programs. Each program can be adjusted over 16 levels of intensity.

A lot of us have had experience with this technology at the doctor’s office for knee injuries and various other muscular-skeletal ailments. Take this lovely muscle twitching, pins and needles tech and attach it to your genitalia for a sexual thrill!

The first unveiling of this Rimba power box and the Electro Sex Glove was actually at a dinner party with some vanilla friends of mine. My lifestyle choices may not be their thing but they are continually intrigued by it. Tonight was no different. They always like to see the new things that have come in for review; and this was one of the items that was “more out there” for the crowd.

Even though vanilla; my guests actually had a blast getting zapped by the glove and we all tried out the different settings and intensities to see what they all did. I almost think that I could have turned one of them over to the dark side!

Lifestyle unveiling was again done with C.O.P.E. I have a rubber puppy friend that has been stricken with MS and had asked after a fireplay session with me, if I would like to do some TENS work with him – I couldn’t pass that offer up! Product testing with this item was a blast!

rimba_glove1The electro gloves are worn over top of a pair of latex or nitrile gloves so that the wearer is insulated from getting (most of) the shock. We tried them out dry first. Each setting has a different sensation – it also depends on the intensity setting and whether or not the touch of the glove has light or hard pressure, fingertips or palms.

Water based lube soaked gloves were next. This apparently increased the sensation about ten fold; for the wearer as well. I don’t mind getting zapped a little it makes the play more fun. Sensations can go from the pins and needles type of sensation to twitching muscles, to a deep tissue thudding. I worked on his torso and his legs – the hands-on method of play was simply hot! An evil zapping massage. I can’t wait to try these on the weighted balls of my boy!

Because this is an electrical toy it leaves a rash-like burn similar to what you would get from the violet wand play. Bring your aloe vera gel for your partner’s aftercare.

There are many different types of electrode attachments available for the Rimba TENS unit. I will look forward to trying them all.

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Silent view Photography – how beautiful photography can be you see here

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February
2009 | 12:45 pm

silentview1MARQUIS AMERICA recommends Silent View Photography
“Absolute silence, as it is found inside a camera silens, is sensed as an unpleasant or frightening experience as result of the absent of reflexion and therewith the absent of acoustic orientation in space. It leads to sensory deprivation which may induce hallucination or thought disorder caused by the lack of external stimulation. It is used for inquisition and brainwashing and belongs to the white torture as it leaves no visible signs of torture but still is able to shatter human personality within short time.”

Silent-View photography is an art photo project consisting of a photographer (Silent-View) and a model (Fraeulein von Rosenfelde), that tries to implement impressions which may develop in a camera silens into pictures. Escape into the inside as the only way to deal with the isolation.

Since 2005 both of them implement with their pictures particularly gloomy and bizarre, sometimes unsettling themes, but extended their repertoire in 2007/2008 to fashion, glamour and band photography as well as to video art and are always in search of the extraordinary.

By special lighting, individual styling, extravagant poses and striking locations they create a surreal simulacrum of our world. It resembles scenes out of a dream, hallucinations, delusions with joy at the illusion, but never is ordinary or chumming up.

silentview2A concept that has been extended and improved through all the time and now speaks its own metaphorical language. The aim is to awake unmistakable impressions and to convey strong emotions. Critical, provocative, expressive, abysmal, but still with a subtle wink and spiced with a pinch of cynicism.

Normally, both of the artists create everything themselves, from locations, make-up, clothing to editing their works. For special projects or jobs they collaborate with selected models, fashion-labels and make-up artists.

http://www.silent-view.com/ 

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Fetish Photographer Dirk Hooper to Exhibit in Pennsylvania Art Show

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February
2009 | 2:32 pm

dirkhooperMARQUIS AMERICA recommends Dirk Hooper!

ALLENTOWN, PENNSYLVANIA, February 4, 2009 – Fantasy and fetish photographer Dirk Hooper will have several photos on display during the “My Fetish Valentine” art show at Art N Soul Studios. Hooper will be joined by Lehigh Valley’s own Scott Nichol and Ed Mironiuk from New Jersey. This is Art N Soul Studios’ first group fetish show and is curated by owner Craig Smith. “My Fetish Valentine” will begin on February 7th with an opening party that begins at 7 p.m.

Dirk Hooper stated, “Art N Soul is a great venue to show work and the fetish theme is a slam dunk for my genre of photography.” Hooper’s exhibition in Utrecht, the Netherlands wrapped just prior to the opening of the show in Pennsylvania. “This has been a great start to the year,” Hooper remarked, “I’m excited to share my own vision and the contribution of the Toxic Goddess models with such a new and diverse crowd of people.”

“My Fetish Valentine” opening party will begin at 7pm and run into the night. There will be food, drinks and a DJ spinning tunes all evening long. Fetish wear is encouraged but not required. You must be 18 to enter the event and 21 to drink alcohol. Due to the nature of the art and for the privacy of the participants it is requested that no cameras or video devices be brought to the event. Art N Soul Studios is located at 516 West Hamilton Street in Allentown, Pennsylvania. For more information please call Art N Soul Studios at 484-338-4856 or visit Dirk Hooper’s website, DirkHooper.com.

Dirk Hooper is a world renowned fetish and fantasy photographer, fine artist, graphic designer and writer whose work has been described as “forbidden tales to rival the likes of H.P. Lovecraft and the Marquis de Sade.” Dirk’s publishing credits include such diverse media as comic books, music CDs, art books and slick fetish magazines. He has also cultivated a reputation as a fine artist in established venues like the prestigious Fred Jones Jr. Art Museum and as an underground visionary in galleries like the Electric Chair, “the Dirty Show” in Detroit, “Fetish Project” in Brussels, Belgium and “Siberia” in Utrecht, the Netherlands. Dirk has work in the permanent collection of the Kinsey Institute based at Indiana University.

Please go and check him out: http://www.dirkhooper.com/

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Marlayna’s Realms on Marquis Fetish Blog

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February
2009 | 1:03 pm

 

 


marlayna-shavonnaMARQUIS AMERICA with Marlayna’s wisdom and incredible insight! Enjoy!

 

 

Over the last year I have been telling all in person and print about the amazing time I had at last years bang out at the luxurious and oh so grand Venetian Hotel! Oh, what a night that was and our entourage was a sight to behold. This year once again we had the notorious and boob-a-licious Bam Bam and her gal-pal Marjorie along for the XXX high heeled ride. Our newest addition to Shavonna’ flock was a charming trans-gal from Los Angeles name Michelle. Whose demure nature hid a fierce and confident lady who has set her own agenda and is living her life on her own terms. Now as I am known for the blatant plug! NO, NO, NO Not what you are thinking or would like to! SMILE!

I am referring to my well known shout outs and blatant plugZZZZ to my dear friends. I am not donehere and will ramble at ya more about the party but first this message from my heart!

 

This evening and once again I have to pucker my lipZZ and give a big Hollywood Kiss and ‘shout out’ to our intrepid lens man and photo-op king James (Jim) Campbell from Mayflower Productions.

Screw the line about every photo and a story! Every photo burns an image in your mind and his are what we in the scene refer to as fetish eye candy!

 

 

 

What I felt when he was shooting me was like he was a Picasso with a camera! And with just a gesture or look had me working it! HELLO! Right now you are looking at his work so I think they say it all and more!

 

Oh, what a night. No time for photos in front of the limo and I am sure we looked like “F-TROOP with Col. Jim Campbell “Hooker” in the rear! Oh what a sight and well, you know! LMFAO here!

 

In Costa Rica I was overwhelmed a so much was hitting me and you can read in between the railroad lines on that one! A gent who had been living there said to me, “It will start hitting you in two to three weeks.” Three days and nights after the party I was still there in my mind. Like being in the MOMA and seeing the art Andy Warhol created only a zillion times better and on a whole different level.

 

Now we do not have a situation where a group of people sit around and say, OK Scottie, Beam us down a DJ and all the fixings and go-go for one of the hottest bashes of the T & A weekend! Since I want to make sure I have it right I am going to give all who presented the event a shout out. The party card reads:

 

NYCFetishTribe.com Presents (A KELLEY DANE & MIKE B. CREATION) 7th Annual Ultimate After Party: Presented by Marquis Magazine HELLO! Our hosts for the evening were Dicey Doug, Eddie the King, the ever popular Mike B. aka “the mayor”. Of course the menu served us up Kelley Dane along with the charming Powder. 

  

The UTIMATE AFTER PARTY was held for two con-sex-u-tive nights Jan 9 &10th There was an Open Bar, Private Penthouse Suite and music by: TERRO CHIC, DJ JESS & XRIS SMACK

 

 

marlayna-ventian-hotel-avn-xxx-adult-industry-party-2Can I SAY I heard a rumor Kid Rock was there or NOT go there at ALL? What I do remember quite well is meeting Erik and asking him about me submitting content on ‘spec’ to Marquis America.

 

Well one thing led to another after I contacted him and here I am less than three weeks later writing in my second BLOG posting! I am attaching a few photos from the party taken by either myself or Jim and it is my understanding that images from the event are posted on the NY Fetish Tribes Myspace page! I could write ten pages on the party as it was be far one of the most boob-a-licious Sin City bashes I have ever had the pleasure to attend!

 

At this moment I am waiting to hear from my new Sin City drag scene illuminati and gal pal Medusa LaVamp. Unless she is pulling my wig-hat what I am hearing is that she is going to get yours truly, Shavonna and Jim the VIP a go go at the RuPual –“Drag Race” After Party @ GYPSY. We shall see!

 

More information and members on the tribe and friends you will in the new Marquis Fetish social networking site:

 

www.myfetishcafe.com

 

JOIN and keep in touch with everybody from the AVN afterparty!

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Very special fetish corset art show this weekend in SF!

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February
2009 | 1:26 pm

sh01-bg1I’m in this show, and there are also lots of other works- really special are the photos by Fakir Musafar of many famous tiny-waisted women corseted within an inch of their lives! Very much worth seeing!

‘CINCH – THE ART OF CORSETRY’ VISUAL ART EXHIBITION AT FEMINA POTENS ART GALLERY

SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA – FEBRUARY 7, 2009 – Being laced into a
corset, can be an exquisitely sensual experience as you are pulled
gradually in from the top and bottom towards the middle. The sensation
of being embraced tighter and tighter is empowering. Join us while we
honor the corset through classic, modern and alternative depictions of
an exquisite garment that has been around for 100′s of years.

‘Cinch- The Art of Corsetry’, engages the artists in sculpture,
bronze, photography and mixed media to celebrate one of history’s
sexiest traditions. Wearable art corsets will be created from
untraditional materials- corsets made from books for our literary
scholars, and metal for those who prefer it a bit more raw.

We invite you to celebrate each artist’s interpretation of corsetry:
Fakir Musafar, Ehren Reed, Suzanne Forbes, Catherine Murty and Angela
Fortain. Join our live corset models at our opening reception on
February 7th, 7:00 – 10:00pm. Get cinched up and have your breath
taken away by our latest exhibit, ‘Cinch – the Art of Corsetry’.

‘Cinch- The Art of Corsetry’ Visual Art Exhibition
February 7 – March 1, 2009

Opening Reception Feb 7th, 7:00-10:00pm

Femina Potens Art Gallery

2199 Market Street San Francisco, CA 94114

Visit www.feminapotens.org for more information

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The slave trade in Ireland from the independant.ie

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February
2009 | 7:44 pm

bunnyThe slave trade

People on the Irish fetish scene aren’t hurting anyone, except each other. As the strictly vanilla Joanna Kiernan learns the ropes of fetish dressing, she meets the Irish men who like to submit, the women who dominate them, and the people who are partial to a little bit of pain on a night out. Joanna’s portrait, left, by Sarah Doyle, all other photography by Peter Buckley

By Joanna Kiernan

Sunday January 25 2009

‘Come on, I look much sluttier than she does!” I found myself arguing the odds with the doorman of a city- centre nightclub last week, while jealously pointing to an unsuspecting individual who had just gained access.

I was attempting to get into Nimhneach, a fetish and BDSM (bondage, domination and submission, sadism and masochism) night held regularly in The Academy on Abbey Street. Nimhneach has an incredibly strict dress code — presumably in order to keep out spectators like me — and I had just been informed that neither I nor my companion fitted the bill.

“She has pink hair,” the doorman said, in defence of his decision to let the less sluttily dressed punter in. “What!” I screeched. “Is this some type of elitist snobbery? Am I too normal looking?” He nodded in acquiescense. “Yes. Too vanilla.”

A professional dominatrix who attends Nimhneach socially had assured me slutty would do for a girl.

“For a woman, it’s kind of easier,” she had said. “The dress code is just kind of slutty — the sort of thing you’d be arrested for wearing, but in fact you’ll feel extremely comfortable.”

So I had taken her word for it, and I brought out the fishnets and the indecent little black dress, but to no avail.

In fairness, my companion’s job was half-hearted: a pencil skirt, worn in the hope that she might be taken for a schoolmistress. In the end, it took a female Nimhneach organiser sporting glittery blue nipple tassels to get us in, by bringing us into a back room and making some ‘style adjustments’.

My companion had further to go than I. Apparently, I had managed borderline fetish, but she was completely off the mark. Not one to be outdone, she quickly stripped to her bra and hiked her skirt up around her hips, while offering: “Sure, we’d wear less at the beach.”

Then I was kitted out with the apparent accessory du jour in the fetish scene: ropes.

“All the bondage freaks will be over to you!” the organiser told me enthusiastically, as she tied me into my gear.

I smiled politely and felt my heart begin to race. “There goes my dream of running for president or the Rose of Tralee,” I thought to myself as the knots tightened.

On entering Nimhneach, which is Irish for ‘sore’, or ‘painful’, two things became apparent. Firstly, I shouldn’t have bothered with the fake tan, and, secondly, we were still overdressed. Even with our new fetish makeovers, we looked as if we’d just turned up to the beach in ski suits.

“What we provide is a space where alternative sexuality is allowed and encouraged and nurtured,” Fig, one of the Nimhneach organisers, told me. “So if you want to lead your slave around on a leash, that’s fine. And if you want to dress up half naked, that’s also fine. Everybody is here to have a good time and also to express themselves in a sexual way. Though obviously there’s no sex and there’s also no full-frontal nudity allowed.” I had met Fig for the first time two days before the Nimhneach event, and the contrast between his style on the two days was, to say the least, startling.

On a Thursday evening in a cafe on South William Street, it was hard to pick him out from the crowd. I had presumed I’d know exactly who he was when I saw him, that he’d look like one of ‘them’, but he looked nothing like I had anticipated.

Dressed in conservative office attire — a stark contrast to his fetish gear of an ankle-length leather jacket, leather knee-high boots, black string vest and short, rubber skirt — Fig warned of what I might encounter during the following Saturday’s festivities.

“Certain scenes will be taking place,” he explained in a matter-of-fact manner, “and we provide equipment — like there’s an A-frame, scaffolding and stuff like that and some ropes. You can tie up your partner and there might be a bit of whipping. It might seem a bit harsh, but that’s all pre-negotiated.

“As soon as somebody says that’s it, that’s consent withdrawn; the person who’s doing it has to stop.

“Usually a couple will negotiate their own safe words. The general one is the traffic light system, where red is stop, yellow means don’t stop, but just be mindful I’m actually approaching my limits; and green is fine.”

He became very philosophical when I enquired what exactly people get from all this whipping and PVC.

“Human sexuality is an extraordinarily complex beast. For the most part, for most people, sexuality is fairly straightforward — you know, male, female, that’s it, job done. But for maybe 30 per cent of the population, sexuality is actually a little bit more complex. There are things like wanting to submit and wanting to dominate. And nature is kind of amazing because it’s provided people who want to do this, and people who want to have it done to them.”

“In one sense it’s like the gays were so many years ago,” Fig maintains. “They were suppressed, but now they’re accepted in mainstream society. Now the fetish people are going through the same process. There’s an awful lot of bias against it, misinformation and misunderstanding. People confuse it with all sorts of unsavoury aspects — like, for example, people confuse fetish with swinging, and that’s like confusing Australians with New Zealanders!”

So, what type of people normally attend Nimhneach?

“You usually get business people and IT people. What you will find is either they’re very smart people or incredibly mad, or smart and mad. You’ve got to throw off what society has put around you: ‘Ye shall not do this, this is perverted.’ And you have to think: ‘Well, no, my feelings are actually telling me something different.’”

In Nimhneach, Fig showed me around almost proudly. “That’s Caroline, she can take a lot of pain,” he says, pointing to a woman dressed as a schoolgirl being caned on the backside by a man, complete with cap and gown, who’s dressed as a schoolmaster.

It’s uncomfortable viewing, but then that is, Fig reckons, typical of what a member of the vanilla contingent might say. Vanilla, as you can imagine, is the term used to describe the majority of non-fetish people. From a vanilla point of view, the fetish scene certainly has a very different outlook on sexuality and an alternative take on what is considered sexy.

As to the clothing, regardless of size or gender, the rule seems to be the more outrageous, the better. The most outlandish thing I saw was a rope-style bra on a rather well-endowed woman, which looked so uncomfortable that what could possibly have been considered an enviable cleavage instead resembled sausage meat being put through a grinder.

Fig estimates that the ratio of dominant males to submissive females in Ireland is about even, but “when you get down to ‘sub’ male and ‘dominant’ female, the ratio is something like 9:1. So, some women take advantage of that and offer a service.”

And this is exactly what X, a professional dominatrix, decided to begin capitalising on five years ago.

“I was in a friend’s house and I don’t know how the conversation came about, but I managed to express my interest. They then introduced me to some people, professional dommes, who were just fantastic and gave me some pointers. What to do and what not to do and how to keep yourself safe,” says the 39-year-old mother of one from South Dublin.

“I had a boyfriend when I was in my teens who had a big influence on me and we did a lot of experimenting together. I was very lucky with him. Then we kind of went our separate ways, but I went off thinking that that’s what everybody did. So I scared off a couple of people.

“Then I just put all that stuff in the cupboard and had a very normal life for a while, until I realised: ‘No, I can’t.’ I had to be true to who I am and explore this side of myself.

“It was probably actually with the advent of the internet that I discovered I wasn’t the only person who was like this. You can feel very isolated when you think you’re the only person in the world who feels a particular way. And, then, when you find like-minded beings and like-minded souls, you can share ideas, and realise that you’re not alone,” she explained.

On the dangers involved, X says, jokingly: “You do have to be careful, but so does everybody crossing the road.”

She giggles when I ask her about the job satisfaction she gets from domination — is it all about the power?

“It is. It really is. And what woman doesn’t want to be told that she’s beautiful, she’s a goddess, worshipped, adored and that she is absolutely fantastic? You just can’t go wrong. I think everybody should do this. It is the most amazing thing, to be told that you are stunning, beautiful, wonderful, spectacular and that you look incredible. You just feel 20-feet tall. It’s something I truly enjoy.”

X’s customers are mostly men but she does have some couples. “A couple would come to me with something that they want to explore, but they don’t know how. So it’s not really a session, it’s more of a training session. I just give them some pointers.”

Of the type of individuals that make up X’s customer base, she explains: “I don’t ask them too many questions about what they do. Quite a few seem to be involved in financial services. Sometimes, the workplace stresses take over and sometimes I think the same: ‘For goodness sake, would somebody just make it all go away and make decisions for me for the next hour.’ It is liberating. It is escapism.

“I have some cross-dressers as well, who come to see me and for that hour, or whatever length of time, they can be true to themselves in a comfortable space.”

So if it is more than a profession or a personal interest, but also a lifestyle, why does X have a fear of being outed? Is it the case that Ireland is not really ready for the fetish folk?

“I don’t know if Ireland is ready, but my mother isn’t!” she says. “I have a family, I have neighbours, I have a child. It is sometimes misunderstood. It is sometimes seen as bullying. It’s always the very extreme side that is portrayed — you know, some poor bloke is being thrashed to within an inch of his life. But it’s not that. Well, OK, sometimes it is, but most of it is just a power exchange between two people and it can be as subtle as a look. For a truly submissive man, it is his choice to worship and submit. It is something that he is choosing to do and that he wants to do. It makes him feel good about himself; to look after and please a woman.”

X admits that quite a few men in relationships seek her services and she appears to see her role as that of an alternative-style relationship therapist.

“I do prefer that they tell me if they are involved or not, just in terms of whether they can be marked,” she explains. “Sometimes, I’ll shave somebody, or maybe leave a small bruise or something like that, and I need to know whether they’re going to get in trouble if someone sees a bruise or something.

“People confide very intimate details in me, quite often intimate details of maybe a troubled marriage or a troubled relationship. If I can make that person feel a bit better about themselves, then they can try to repair some of the other things that aren’t working in their lives.”

X has a day job, but refuses to specify even an area. “I am self-employed, but this is not my full-time profession. I do have other activities that I would be involved in, all perfectly above board, which makes it easier, because then I don’t have to tell so many lies. That’s a big part of it, I tell lies all the time and I don’t like doing that.”

She also reveals that the recession is having an effect on her trade: “There has been a little bit of a slowdown.”

So what is the attraction for her clients? Can she pinpoint it?

“They’re not attracted to me; they are attracted to my alter ego. I have had a few of them profess their undying love, but they love a person who doesn’t exist. I have to sometimes put them straight. But I genuinely care for everybody that comes to see me; I wouldn’t do it otherwise. There is a bond that is created between a mistress and her slave, and that bond is quite unique.”

But she’s quick to point out that even so, professional boundaries are maintained.

“Anybody in any profession, if you are working in an environment, let’s say you’re doing palliative care, you have to become immune, because otherwise you’d take it home. In all professions there are boundaries of professionalism and I respect the profession not to cross those boundaries.”

To those who equate being a dominatrix with being a prostitute, X says: “I’d say come and see me. It can be misconstrued. Those who come and see me know the difference. You get the odd phone call from somebody and you have to put them straight, and say: ‘Well, no, that’s not what I offer.’ If somebody asked me for more, I just wouldn’t have a clue, wouldn’t even know where to start. It’d be like going to the dentist and asking him to look at your feet. The differences are huge.”

Of all of her services, X’s most popular service is the schoolmistress scenario. “I’m asked for that a lot, corporal punishment a lot, humiliation is another big one. Humiliation, I, personally find a bit strange. Humiliation can be verbal or physical. It can be commenting on somebody’s lack of something; you know: ‘You’re too small, you’re too fat, you’re worthless, you’re horrible, you’re disgusting.’ And then physical is more when they are forced to carry out a task that would be demeaning. So, maybe a task that would be primarily feminine — having to clean a floor with a toothbrush on their hands and knees, while wearing a frilly apron with me standing over them. Or ‘corner time’, when they want to be chastised and put in the corner with a dunce hat. I find that mindset very difficult to understand. Why would somebody want that? But I have to make a conscious decision to remove logic, because if I think about it too much, I think: ‘What on earth am I doing? This is mad.’”

However, X does argue that such practices are not inherently disrespectful or degrading.

“I have the utmost respect for everybody who comes to see me, because they are being true to themselves. Being submissive doesn’t mean that you are being spineless, stupid or worthless; if anything, it’s the exact opposite. There is a strength in submissive men that is often not understood.

“There’s a difference between being henpecked and being submissive. You know, being henpecked is where you are being bullied by somebody. But being submissive is where a man is making a conscious decision to serve a woman, to please her and to do things that please her, and what’s making him happy is her being happy. Whereas henpecking is a desire to make yourself feel better by humiliating somebody else in a very negative way. That’s just bullying and that’s abuse.”

X is surprisingly aware of the oddity of her after-hours nixer.

“I do sometimes find it odd and some of the requests, I think: ‘Oh, heavens above,’ but then if that’s what you want, that’s what you want. It’s like somebody coming into the hairdresser saying: ‘Look, I want you to shave off half my hair,’ and the hairdresser is going: ‘What?’ But if that’s what the customer wants, it’s what the customer wants.

“I have some basic rules. Everything is safe, sane and consensual, so that neither party is put at risk. If somebody is in difficulties in any way, there is a safe word that they are free to use at any time, which means everything stops immediately. There is a difference between good pain and bad pain. Bad pain is where I’ve stood on him by mistake, or I’ve poked him in the eye, and good pain is when I am in control and they know that I’m in control and they feel safe.”

She’s quick to point out that she is a normal person, albeit with an unconventional profession.

“The illusion is: ‘Gosh, you must never have to do your own ironing or clean your kitchen floor,’ but I’m a person at the end of it. I have to clean my own oven. Yes, I put my own dustbins out. No, I don’t live in an ivory tower. Tragically, I’m not surrounded by slaves who are at my beck and call, but in their heads they are.

“You get: ‘Oh, let me live with you and I’ll drive you here and I’ll drive you there, I want to be your chauffeur, I’ll be your slave and I’ll be your this, that and the other.’ It’s all in their heads. They honestly would probably drive me bananas. To have somebody under my feet 24 hours a day would drive me nuts. I need to put on my big, pink fluffy slippers and my huge pyjamas. I don’t sleep in PVC!”

My enquiry as to whether or not she is in a relationship is met with searing honesty. “No, I keep scaring them off. I did have a husband but I gave him back. I was married for a while but I felt very repressed. It wasn’t him, he didn’t do anything wrong. It was me, I was finding it difficult to express myself.

“I’ve had a couple of relationships but it always comes down to the fact that I’m very nervous to be honest with them. So I just tell lies and then there’s only so long you can tell lies for before somebody realises: ‘Well, there’s a bit more to this!’

“I’m often asked the question would I give it up if I met the right person. But if I met the right person then I shouldn’t have to give it up,” she says frankly.

One of X’s clients was keen to speak to me about his mistress and to explain the powerful bond between them.

“I find the shared dynamic between two people to be at its most intimate when shared through a forum of total power exchange,” he tells me. “From a submissive’s point of view, it is giving one’s trust to someone whom you admire, respect and are inherently fond of that gives a deep satisfaction. Her presence is enough, even in a totally vanilla setting, to create a dynamic whereby I am inspired to serve her.”

He becomes defensive when I ask what the attraction is. “What’s the attraction for vanilla people to hold hands? It’s the same inherent need to connect with another human being, in a way in which both parties find some level of outward contentment. I won’t say it hasn’t a sexual element — it has, just as all attractions have.”

X’s client is single, but said that he would continue to use her services even if he entered a relationship, adding that: “I am personally inclined towards submission in a practical, everyday sense. In other words, I would rather serve a mistress in ways that would benefit her life, rather than in a scene, for example in a dungeon, where I feel the domme is doing a lot of activities to pleasure the sub — that is really topping from the bottom, which defeats the purpose for me.”

His family and friends are unaware of his inclination, the reasons for which, he says, “in this country are fairly obvious”.

“Society generally tells us to stand up for yourself and bow to no one. Declaring oneself as a submissive would be seen by general society as a weakness, in spite of the fact that when the intricacies are understood and examined, it actually takes far greater strength to let go of the ego and express who you want to be.”

The internet is awash with various fetish websites, featuring many Irish participants. One such website, www.slaveregister.com, allows subscribers to obtain slave ownership certificates, as well as posting photos of their various ‘tags’. One such photo displays a barcode tattoo on the left cheek of the subject’s backside, with a caption which reads: “a gift from my wonderful mistress.”

Another, similar dominatrix website, www.femdommesociety.com , a “private society dedicated to female supremacy”, has five Irish professional dominatrices listed as members. One of the Irish dominatrices advertised offers the following scenarios: “bathroom use control”; “closet play (locked inside)”; and “water torture” while she may also “accompany her piggies to events”, but, “mistress/submissive protocol will be adhered to at all times on all dates and at all events”. However, this may not be a great idea for an office party, as being ordered to get down on all fours and bark is an event sure to outshine even the drunkest karaoke crooner. Another dominatrix, who refers to herself as “Dublin‘s No 1 FemDom Goddess”, lists the interests “ball-busting” and “financial slavery” among her favourites — this last should be familiar to many of us, already feeling the pinch of the recession.

And should anyone be considering a career change, there’s a camaraderie within the scene that would facilitate this. “Should any budding dommes wish to gain experience . . . contact the mistress as she can provide mentoring and a suitable guinea pig on which to practice,” reads one helpful website post.

A huge number of registered users on www.collarme.com, the world’s largest BDSM online community, are Irish, with online user aliases such as IrishMaster27, Kerryslaveboy, Southsideminx and lilirishtart, all scouting for suitors. The fetish scene may still be small in Ireland, but not as small as you might think. Though petite, it seems perfectly formed and perfectly happy in its own skin.

Aside from playing their part in the imminent peak-oil crisis courtesy of their penchant for rubber, the fetish people don’t seem to be hurting anyone — except, of course, each other, in what is, apparently, a good way.

L

Joanna wears: latex corset dress and choker from Miss Fantasia, 25 Sth William St, D2, tel: (01) 671-3734, or see www.missfantasia.ie 

The premier Irish Exotic Adult Boutique!

- Joanna Kiernan

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Stiletto Shoes – Latest Trends In Ultra Thin High Heel Shoes

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February
2009 | 11:14 am

stilettoMARQUIS AMERICA recommends stiletto shoes, avialble soon at the Marquis fetish website. Labeled super sexy in the genre of high heel shoes for women, stiletto shoes are most coveted by women who love to be seen a notch higher than others, in fashion and otherwise.

Read on to know more about the stylish stiletto shoes that instantly raise the sex appeal of your dress from zero to sixty. The article also talks about the latest trends is stiletto shoes in terms of style, shape and color to help you make a more informed decision when you go on a stiletto shoes shopping spree next time.

stiletto2What are Stiletto Shoes?
‘Ultra thin shoes with ultra thin heels’, is what our ultra trendy stiletto shoes can best be defined as. The popular shoe derives its name from ‘Stiletto Dagger’ which is endowed with a murderous long slender blade. Aptly named, stiletto shoes are no less dangerous than their namesake with the length of their heels typically varying from 4 inches to 8 inches or more!

Stiletto shoes are sometimes also defined as shoes with heels having a diameter at the ground of less than 1 cm (slightly less than half an inch). Stiletto-style heels shorter than 5 cm are called kitten heels.

Stiletto shoes became popular in 1950s when a thin metal rod was placed within the heel to make it strong enough to support the weight of a person. Today, stiletto heels have become extremely popular and are found in various types of shoes and boots such as sling-backs, pumps, mules, ankle boots etc. Stiletto shoes have become on and off ageing fashion accessories several times since then. The slender stiletto heels however, staged a major comeback after 2000, when young women adopted the style for dressing up office wear or adding a feminine touch to casual wear like jeans.

stiletto41Nowadays stiletto shoes are highly popular. While the kitten heel versions have become an everyday office and party wear, higher heel versions are associated with the image of femme fatale and are known more their erotic nature than for their ability to make height.

Latest Trend in Stiletto Shoes
Stilettos are a hot rage these days! More and more women are realizing the inherent power of stilettos to make the wearer look slimmer, taller and sexier. Shoe designers too are harping on the growing penchant for stiletto shoes amongst women and displaying creativity more than ever when it comes to stiletto heels. From ballet and fetish styles to sleek and classic, there’s a stiletto shoe for woman of every age, style and attitude.

Style – Stiletto shoes are available in chic and intriguing styles. Lace-up, ankle boots, knee-length, thigh high, court shoe, pumps, mules and pointed toe shoe, all genres of womens shoes are experimenting with spindly stiletto high heels and are being lapped up by fashion conscious ladies.

stilleto4To further accentuate the fun of sleek and sexy stiletto shoes, designers are playing with buckles, zippers, clasps to glitter, rhinestones, crystals and more. Two tones, flames, animal prints are also making a mark in stiletto shoes.

Shape – A popular trend observed in stiletto shoes these days are pointed toe shoes. These shoes are slender and elongated in shape just as the stiletto heel themselves and make the foot appear smaller and sexier. However, women also have the option of going in for more rounded or squared toe stiletto shoes if the slimmer versions are bit too uncomfortable for them.

Color – A lot of experimentation can be seen in terms of colors when it comes to stilettos shoes. Classic shades of brown, grey and black are sharing shelf space with the bolder and flirty tones of deep red, purple, white, pink, yellow and green. Gold, silver, clear and glitter are also catching attention at the same time.

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Queen of burlesque Von Teese on fashion, fetishes and France

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February
2009 | 8:52 pm

ditaPARIS (AFP) — Dita Von Teese, the onetime blonde from small-town USA who morphed into the black-haired global superstar of strip, credits her celebrity status to a love of femininity exaggerated to the hilt.

Currently in the French capital for a run of shows in that quintessentially Parisian cabaret, the Crazy Horse, the diva of glam sex recounts how a teenage passion for underwear propelled her rise to celebrity, both as stripped-down “Queen of Burlesque”, and dressed-up fashion icon.

“Lingerie is my first love,” says the 36-year-old, a tiny Snow-White like figure, demurely though elegantly turned out in a calf-length dark green number by designer Roland Mouret — and incredibly high high heels.

“I started wanting to learn about the history of lingerie and that’s how I came across pictures of pin-up girls, and when I found pin-up girls I found burlesque stars, and that’s it.”

Von Teese, a familiar face at top fashion houses such as Dior, Jean Paul Gaultier or Elie Saab, and consistently rated one of the world’s Best Dressed women, recently outed her own lingerie for Wonderbra.

“She earns a living peeling off her clothes but is celebrated for what she wears,” said Crazy Horse manager Andree Deissenberg.

A onetime fetish model formerly married to gothic rock star Marilyn Manson, Von Teese grew up with a passion for 30s and 40s Hollywood glam, trained as a dancer and a costume designer, and did her first strip when a teenager — creating a vintage-inspired outfit with elbow-length gloves and seamed stockings that piqued the clientele.

“I always had an interest in fetishism because I like things that exaggerate the feminine form,” she said. “Extremely high heels, waist-crunching corsets, all the things that really exaggerate the feminine shape, and long red nails and make-up that’s very feminine.”

“Apparently that also appeals to fetishists.”

Fetishism, she added, was more than whips and chains and being mean. “It’s also about worshipping femininity and extremes and finding beauty in extremes. That’s what always appealed to me.”

On the way, she said she became interested in why people had a fetish for seamed stockings, high heels, or feet or rubber or leather.

“I was always really interested in knowing what makes people tick.”

“When people think of being beautiful or sexy, it’s important to remember that those things are different for everyone,” she said. “There’s such a broad scope of what turns people on.”

A corset-wearing tight-lacer, Von Teese has featured on the cover of fetish magazines while wowing burlesque audiences by performing in giant glasses of champagne or martini, straddling a 9-foot lipstick, feather-fan dancing or walking the stage in just diamonds or Swarovski crystals.

“People ask me what is the difference between burlesque and striptease and there really isn’t one,” she said.

dita2Burlesque was like early 20th century song-and-dance vaudeville, but more risque, with more skits on sex and stripteasers as the stars — such as her heroine Gypsy Rose Lee.

“I’m just trying to bring back the original art form,” added softly-spoken Von Teese.

At the Crazy Horse, where she performs through to Valentine’s Day, Von Teese aptly is playing as “resident artist”.

As the cabaret is far smaller than Paris’ other legendary night-spots, the Folies Bergeres, Moulin Rouge or Lido, and with a tinier stage, Von Teese has had to rethink and redevise her numbers, performing alongside the club’s troupe of scantily dressed dancing girls.

Paris, she said, where she spends increasing amounts of time, is the ideal city for the art of burlesque.

While the US invented showgirls and the art of striptease, “unfortunately it seems that now in America they’ve lost all sense of what burlesque really is. It’s just something very racy for them,” she said.

“It’s not like in France where they still remember names like Mistinguett and Josephine Baker”, the leggy singer-dancers respectively from France and the US of the years before the Second World War.

“In America they’ve completely forgotten this and have a hard time coming to terms with the idea that striptease could’ve been a form of classic entertainment,” she said.

“There was a reason Josephine Baker found more accolades here than where she was from, so even in the 20s and 30s it was a lot freer here than where she came from,” said Von Teese.

“I like coming here to be appreciated.”

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Weekly Toy review from Darkniis on Marquis Fetish Blog

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2009 | 1:26 pm

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MARQUIS AMERICA toy review with Mistress Darkniis. She knows the toys as no other and we are proud to have her on the blog reviewing toys & accessories!

The Imperial by Vergenza

Primal desires translated through machined metals. Aircraft-grade spun aluminum as the new hot fudge chocolate sundae. These are just part of Vergenza’s manifesto.

This piece by Vergenza is simply a work of art… A frighteningly beautiful work of art. It dwarfs the N-joy at eleven inches long and 1.75 inches thick. It is lovingly crafted of spun aircraft aluminum with a jewelry grade polish.

When this beautiful behemoth arrived I was both delighted and surprised to open the box… Delighted because of my love of shiny metal objects and surprised at its shear size and weight! I wasn’t expecting it to be so heavy!

One of the reasons why I originally chose this piece is because of the fact that it is made of metal. I love the aesthetics of the metal pieces in my medically themed dungeon space because they blend right in with the rest of the decor. I am also an avid fan and skilled user of the Violet Wand so anything metal means I can figure out some way to zap some painful pleasure into my submissive.

imperialjpg1This piece was unveiled at C.O.P.E. the local monthly play-party that I attend. I always sit with another dear friend that is a wand enthusiast so I just had to show him and his girl. Another Dominant that is a welder walked up when he saw it and I had to have him hold it – it is not hollowed out which gives it it’s weight. He knows his stuff and gave a wicked evil grin saying “airplane grade aluminum” and spouting off the alloy mix numbers etc…

A successful attempt with the Violet Wand was had – the arc was beautiful to behold! The surface area that you have to work with is wonderful so the sensation would be similar to the mushroom shaped probe in most Violet Wand kits. I wasn’t willing to juice it up and try it internally on anyone just yet – there may be an addendum to this article though!

I am by no means a size queen… I am of tiny stature; larger than life! All I can recommend for this piece is lots of lube and patience! You have a few options open to you. There are two different ends – I prefer the ridged end to pleasure myself with, it feels really nice! Because of the length you can actually use it to share if you want – 11 inches is enough for some double-ended action! I am sure it also has anal possibilities which I will not attempt personally, but am sure I can find a willing victim.

If you are a size queen you will truly enjoy and devour this lovely. If you aren’t; it is still worth the bruised pleasure you will experience for something different. If you are kinky you simply have to have one in your toybag. I’m sure if you were “artsy” you could find some way to display this on a mantle and no one would be the wiser!

The Vergenza pieces are easy to clean up and worth the price as you will NEVER have to replace this toy. And last, but certainly not least; also great for temperature play!

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